IFS process, step-by-step

Identify and Connect with a Target Part
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We will find differences between yourself and a target habit or symptom you want to work
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We will try to access a state of compassion and curiosity that are essential for healing
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You will establish a relationship with your identified part
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We will learn the history and benevolent intention behind the target habit or symptom

Working with Protective Parts
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We will advance internal attachment work
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You will learn to understand and address the fears and concerns of your protective parts
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You will have an opportunity to build a trusting relationship with reactive parts
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You will be invited to resolve internal conflicts and gain permission to proceed with healing

Healing the Wound
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Now you can connect with the wounded part
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You will learn to witness the pain rather than relive it
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We will retrieve the wounded part and you will be able to release/unburden thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations
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You will imagine life without the wound, and continue the post-healing process
"That which you most need will be found where you least want to look."
- Carl Jung